ouch

A friend delivered her precious baby girl this week.
She was dead.
I feel like I should be impervious.
But I'm not.
It's horrible, and I'm grieving with the mom, even though we're not best friends.
This pebble of pain is unshakably lodged in my heart.
Ouch.

Dear Fellow Facebookers

Dear Fellow Facebookers,
I am not going to change my status to

a. My dog/child/husband/bf just did the cutest thing. He is the best ever!

b. If I had a boyfriend, I could have given up my identity apart from him and have used this space to bore you all with how wonderful he is.

OR
c. Could someone please post kissing pictures because those are the best?

But I really want to say these evil things.